Thursday, November 27, 2014
Today especially, I'm so thankful for big things like
- My husband who makes me laugh every single day, never takes himself or life too seriously, is interested in and enthusiastic about so, so much, wants me to be happy, and knows what I'm thinking two weeks before I even do. Thank God I met him.
- My child who is the most exciting thing that ever happened to me, who lets me experience everything again for the first time, surprises me constantly, loves to sing and dance as much as I do, and keeps me honest.
- My family back in North America who keep in touch even though they know (through the blog) there's usually nothing exciting going on over here. The fact that my parents remarried and brought two new amazing people into my life. That my grandparents are still some of the healthiest, most active people I know. Also, related: the technology that allows us to communicate across all these miles.
- My Swedish family. Fate could have paired me up with a great guy who with a lame family but I got really, really lucky to genuinely enjoy the company of every single one of these Swedes.
- Our health. Our bodies are working as they should and I try to always remember what a gift that is.
- My girlfriends, here and abroad. Every girl's gotta have 'em. They're the best.
- My job. I have the best colleagues, and while I love the weekend as much as the next guy, I really like going to work in the morning.
- My home, which is the perfect size for my family and which is so full of love and warmth, and exists in a neighborhood that couldn't possibly be more fitting. Our home is the place I most like to be.
- Jamie's teachers. They are truly our partners in raising this child and they're doing a great job.
- This country, where I feel so taken care of. Hardly a day goes by that I don't stop and take a moment to appreciate all the things I don't have to worry about because I live here.
- The sheer luck of having been born under the circumstances I was.
- A reliable vehicle and public transportation should it suddenly become unreliable.
- The quality of TV these days! I'm stressed out by how much good stuff there is to watch.
- Singing in a choir. How did I not do it for so many years?
- Makeup. It's actually embarrassing how much joy it brings me.
- The fact that my kid has a good sense of humor.
- Blogs, because I love to write and they're my favorite reading material.
- Having things to look forward to like a party, a vacation, a holiday, a fun weekend plan or even just going home at the end of the day.
Wednesday, November 26, 2014
Monday, November 24, 2014
A Christmas Story when everybody is stopping outside a department store (IN DOWNTOWN CLEVELAND, INCIDENTALLY!) and checking out the window display? I got a major flashback to that scene yesterday morning when Sarianne and I took a walk around Stockholm city and came upon a crowd outside of NK checking out a half dozen incredibly well-thought-out and executed window displays.
Saturday, November 22, 2014
Well I just got done bawling my dang eyes out. See, Sarianne booked a hotel room here in Stockholm because she had a blog event to go to tonight. She invited me to come stay with her, hang out in the city this afternoon and do some shopping tomorrow morning, and get some rare alone time while she was at her event. It was a glamorous plan and I made it even more glamorous by deciding to spend most of the evening in the hotel room by myself with Netflix and dumplings to-go. I did a thorough investigation of the movie selection and ultimately picked Steel Magnolias, an obvious choice because I've never seen it despite its status as a well-loved classic and because I'm never going to get The Swede to watch it with me so I need to take advantage of the alone time. Also, I thought it would be pretty safe because I already knew how it ends and believed that knowing would keep me from getting too sad. But I was wrong, clearly. I still feel pretty good about my choice, though, if for no other reason than The Swede would have cried ten times more than I did if I had ever been able to convince him to watch it. I'm happy to have spared him that.
Friday, November 21, 2014
though once she commented on my blog), but I'm quite sure she's pretty disappointed by my Christmas decorating habits. So I don't put anything in the window in case she should happen to drive by. I make strategical choices, like the amaryllis I put on the front porch, which can be categorized as more of a winter item than a Christmas one, should I ever be pressed to explain myself. And this... well, this isn't a Christmas doormat, it's just kurbits, that's all. I've being doing this dance for the past week, putting a lot of effort into my strategery, when The Swede went ahead and revealed on The Molsta Group that I was about to hang Christmas curtains. Mama Swede responded with a cringing emoticon. My mobile device throbbed with disappointment (disgust?) in my hand. I went to my choir rehearsal later that evening feeling shameful and resentful of The Swede's big mouth and then was TOTALLY REDEEMED when I arrived at the church and saw this glorious sight. If The Swedish Church gets to decorate for Christmas before Advent, then by gosh, so do I!
Thursday, November 20, 2014
Monday, November 17, 2014
ChocoVine back in September. Because it fit so well into the theme (and because ChocoVine seemed like the kind of thing that requires moral support to try) we decided to bust it open for the occasion. And just as my father promised, it was unexpectedly awesome and totally worth its weight in our luggage. I daresay ChocoVine may have scored us some extra points and if that's what pushed us over the edge I owe my pops a thank you because we totally won!
Wednesday, November 12, 2014
Monday, November 10, 2014
Sunday, November 9, 2014
Yesterday Jamie and The Swede went to see Monster Jam, an event we've all been looking forward for months and months. It's always been the plan that just the two guys would go, but even I've been excited because Jamie has been obsessed with monster trucks for a while now and I was pumped for him to get to see them live. Since I knew they'd be busy all day, I made plans to meet in the city with the girls. Shaena and Erin and I met and ate a sushi lunch then Erin and I continued on to Centralbadet, a bathhouse oasis in the middle of the busiest area of the city. We jacuzzi'd and sauna'd till we looked like raisins and it was dark when we came out. Super relaxing, needless to say. And then, when I got home, we got to share all the deets of our awesome days.